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How can I get pregnant quickly?

One-sided desire for children: I want a baby, but my partner doesn't

A child affects both parents and therefore the decision to get pregnant quickly has to be made together. Children mean a lot of responsibility for a very long time. If one of the partners is not sure whether he or she is ready, it would make sense to wait a little longer and to be clear about the common life planning.

Children are - with all the joy and elation - quite a bit of work and this should be shared by father and mother, otherwise the relationship will not last. Therefore, when making a joint decision, it can be helpful to clarify beforehand which role everyone can and wants to take on.

If one of the partners does not (yet) want a child, it is first important to discuss the reasons behind it. Often it is fears or perhaps personal goals in work or leisure that have not yet been achieved. If a partner does not have a secure income or already has children from a previous relationship for which he / she is dependent, the financial aspect can also play an important role. Sometimes there are also doubts as to whether the partnership will last, for example because it has not been around for very long.

It is best to consider together:

  1. What could our life with a common child look like so that it works for both?
  2. What roles would everyone play?
  3. If a parent stays at home, they still need help with the household, with shopping or simply a replacement with childcare in order to pursue their own interests or necessary appointments.
  4. The working parent bears sole responsibility for the family income during this time, this must also be discussed.
  5. Sometimes you have to look for creative solutions or compromise and family planning is right for both of you. If, for example, both partners want to continue to work, one can consider whether both could only work 75 percent and thus still have time for a child.
  6. Or: Moving close to the future grandparents makes it possible to take care of the family - but then you should ask the people concerned in advance whether they are willing and able to do so.

The decision to “get pregnant or, better yet, wait” is simply not an easy one. Honesty between partners is the most important thing in all considerations. You should also remain realistic and not offer solutions that ultimately cannot or do not want to be implemented.

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