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5 signs that you can tell that she is playing "hard to get" with you (and what you can do then)

Let me guess…

You met a super interesting woman. You guys have the same sense of humor and it's just fun to hang out with. So far so good.

But somehow she sometimes writes very strangely. Or you get the uncomfortable feeling that she doesn't really feel like you at all.

Is my assumption going in the right direction?

Then she may play "hard to get" with you.

I can understand that you want to know where you are with her.

Do you want to be able to tell whether she's just playing with you or whether she's actually not interested?

Then just read on, because you will find out what you need to know in this article.


  • Why women think it's a good idea to "hard to get ”to play
  • 5 simple signs that will tell you exactly whether they are just"Hard to get" plays or is really not interested
  • The # 1 best way to deal with when a woman looks unimpressed through chat
  • What you must NEVER say / write when she does
  • Like you are even a true master of the “Hard to get” -Game seduces

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Let's start with the basic question.

Why do women even play "Hard to get"? 4 reasons

There are logical reasons and once you understand them you wonder why you didn't think of them earlier.

First off, the first reason that is closest:

We humans always want the things we can't get.

You could say it's in our nature. When something is given to us just like that, we don't even begin to appreciate it as much as something that we had to invest energy in to get it.

Many women want to take advantage of this psychological fact. They see it as a kind of tactic to let you fidget a little before you gradually get some more from them.

What are you hoping for?

That you think they're great and stick with them, of course.

The second reason is that Women are also insecure at times (It is hard to believe).

She needs the assurance that you are genuinely interested in her and that she is not just another notch in your bedpost.

The third reason?

She is not yet convinced of you.

Women especially play then "Hard to get" with you, if they find you attractive, but are not yet sure whether you are actually a"Quality man" are.

The fourth reason is that women have a legitimate fear of to be seen as a "slut"when they give themselves to you too quickly.

Many men - and especially other women - judge women for their sexual needs.

They do this mainly out of insecurity. They cannot cope with the fact that another person is more uninhibited than they are. Or they do it for fear of losing the woman to someone else.

Women judge their competitors as "Slut"to increase their own sexual market value and decrease that of others at the same time.

How do you know if they "hard to get“Plays?

Let us come to the practical distinction.

The most important difference between a woman who is interested, but "hard to get“Plays, and a woman who no interest has is:

The woman who likes you will help you seduce her and she definitely doesn't want to screw it up.

The woman who is not interested just doesn't want anything to do with you. She only reacts to your attempts to contact you out of politeness or insecurity. You could be a psychopath who goes nuts and starts stalking them.

Unfortunately for many women this is the reality in which they live.

If she is not interested in you:

  • Does she say things like: "Sorry no interest."
  • Look to the side when making eye contact or turn away from you completely without smiling
  • She only replies very briefly and choppily to your messages
  • Does she NOT want to meet you

If she's interested, but "Hard to get" plays:

  • Doesn't she refuse to meet you
  • Does it give you a reasonable amount of resistance. For example, she says: "Maybe I don't want to meet you at all"Or"Who says I'm interested?“, But still communicates normally with you.
  • If she makes eye contact, she looks more at the floor, but smiles
  • She takes her time texting you back, but answers without you having to remind her

There is one more point that I would like to emphasize in particular.


Many men think that a woman is not interested if she doesn't want to sleep with them right away. But that doesn't have to be the case.

Often times, women need time to build more trust and feel comfortable with you.

Her hard to get game can be part of the process she needs to get warm with you.

The big question is whether she wants to hang out with you.

If it doesn't, stop investing your energy in this woman right away.

Here is another checklist. If these points apply, then you don't need to worry - the woman is just playing with you:

  1. Eye contact: She checks you out, looks you straight in the eye and keeps eye contact.
  2. Your Body language is open, she leans towards you, her feet point in your direction, she plays with her hair and smiles.
  3. you laughs a little bit too much about your jokes.
  4. She is not afraid of you to touch or make excuses to do it.
  5. she has fun talking to you.
  6. It works a little jealouswhen you are talking about or flirting with other women.
  7. She presents you personal questions, to get to know you better.

Would you like to find out more about the signals of female body language? Then click here:

→ does she like me? 11 signals that tell you that she wants you

How do you seduce her when she "Hard to get" playing with you

By now you should definitely have a clear picture of how to recognize that a woman is "Hard to get" plays. The only question left is: How do I handle this?

There are 3 options:

  1. Verbalize: You address it directly. You tell her you have the feeling that she is playing with you and ask if both of you really need something like this as adults: “Look, we're both mature and confident people. Do we really need these games? Let's just communicate honestly with each other. "
  2. Logic: You react rationally and coldly to their games. For example, if she asks you if you are trying to seduce her, you will respond with a smile:“Look, I've been talking to you for 20 minutes since I started talking to you. You can take that as a sign of interest on my part. However, I will only continue this conversation if you are also interested. Otherwise I'm out. "
  3. Belittle: You treat her like a cute little girl and don't take her games seriously. You can say things like: "Golden ... You are so cute when you play 'hard to get'". Then you pick it up and swing it through the air. Only if she smiles and responds well to your touch, of course.

You can do these things when you meet in real life. But what about in the virtual world?

What if they chat over "Hard to get" playing with you

Remember, if she only replies to your messages briefly and choppily, she may simply not be interested in you.

Let's say she says:"I don't know if I want to meet you", then you should definitely not ask: "But why not?". You're only making her look for reasons why she shouldn't see you.

Instead, try something like this:

  • "All right, then we'll just have a super romantic date on WhatsApp. Seems to be more your thing;) "
  • “Actually, I just wanted to go for a walk. I haven't thought about getting married right now. Let's start small for now, Rome wasn't built in a day "
  • "Sweet, my little sister always said that to me"

Which you should rather leave when she's playing with you

Many men do something that messes everything up when the woman plays with them.

So take care now, amigo. I don't want you to be one of those men too.

Here's the problem:

The woman is playing "Hard to get" and tried with a phrase like:"Who says that I even want to meet you?" to flirt. Many men are then as ingenious as a blade of grass and conclude:

"Hm, I don't think she knows yet that I really like her ... I just have to smear more honey around her lips and pave the way to work with roses. Maybe then somehow she gets the idea that I think she is great. "

Then they answer with sentences like: "But I really want to see you."

Or worse, you apologize.

It is unlikely that she will meet you then ...

Other men are completely uncreative and try to "throw back" the woman in a dry way by saying something like:"Maybe I don't want to meet you either."

They're just shooting themselves in the foot with it ... with an uzi.

I see it this way:

It doesn't matter at all whether a woman is not interested in you or is just playing with you. She gets the same treatment from me:


I will certainly not fight for a woman who does not meet me in any way. My pride is too great for that and my time is a shame.

If she notices that her "hard to get" game is not working out, she will let me know.

And if not, I've saved myself time, energy and nerves.

As a man "Hard to get" play?

Maybe you are wondering now "Hm, if a woman can do that, why can't I?"

One or two sentences about it.

You may be tempted to think that women invest in you while you are doing NOTHING. Understandable ... you feel a bit like James Bond then.

But if you do this as a kind of tactic, it will be your undoing - I can guarantee you that much.

Don't pretend you have super high standards when you don't actually have any. It is better to actually develop high standards.

How do you do that?

Just promise yourself that you will continue to work on your success with women. Hang out with different women, but don't be afraid to go into something deeper with one woman.

That way you will get a very good idea of ​​what you like about women and what you certainly don't. This increases your demands on its own and you no longer have to pretend.

Then you are by nature "Hard to get".

I wish you success.

Your bro,


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